Christmas is right around the corner, and as I wrote about in my last blog post, my tradition is to send out a family photo and annual newsletter detailing our family’s experiences and accomplishments over the past year.
This year, in honor of my eight year-old daughter, Isa who celebrated her fifth year of being cancer-free (and is now considered completely cured) I decided to write a different kind of letter—one that focused on what our family has learned over the past five years since Isa was diagnosed with leukemia.
I’ve decided to post part of my letter for my blog readers because sometimes it helps to have an actual list right in front of you.
The Most Important Things the Mireles Family has Learned over the Past Five Years Since Isa was Diagnosed with Cancer
- It shouldn’t take almost losing someone close to you to make you realize how important they are.
- People in general are inherently good and will always step up and try to help in times of crisis.
- As much as we try, we cannot control everything. Sometimes it’s best not to fight too much and instead just let it happen.
- Allowing others to help and love you does not make you a weak person, it makes you human.
- The more love you give, the more love you get in return.
- There’s no reason to hold onto the past or worry too much about the future—it’s really the right now that matters. Live in the moment.
- Being critical and judgmental does not make you feel better in the long run. It actually makes you feel worse.
- People are who they are—it’s pointless to try to change them. It’s easier to just love them.
- Wanting what you have is way better than trying to have what you want.
- Although having money is great, feeling gratitude for all of the “insignificant” things in our lives makes us far richer than any amount of money ever could.
- Never take anyone for granted.
- Laughter and tears are equally important.
- LOVE, LOVE, LOVE and then LOVE some more. Then TELL those people how much you love them.
I am so grateful for all of you who read and comment on my blog! I hope this Holiday Season overflows with love, joy and laughter, and…
May the coming year reveal the blessings that are already right there in front of you!